Are you having twins? Here’s some important advice
Having one child seems tough, but having two requires twice the work. You as a parent want to raise your children the right way and to give them all your love and attention. There are many things that you need to keep track of, and here are some of them that may help you with raising your twins.

What gear do you need?
When you have two children, you must double everything. To begin, you’ll need a double stroller because you won’t always be able to push the babies together. When you buy a twin stroller, you only need one person to push it. If you don’t want to use a stroller, baby carriers are an option, but they normally need the two of you to hold one baby each. When you need to be mobile, this alternative is ideal because moving a stroller can be sluggish at times. Double strollers are large, and many city streets are too narrow for such a large item, and the double stroller will not fit in many trunks. There are strollers with removable seats available, so the suggestion is to read a review for twins car seats, which are required in many countries, and choose the ones that may fit your needs. Regardless of the law, you must properly safeguard your children. You’ll also need two cribs or one extremely large crib, however, the first choice is preferable. Always consider how much food you require, how much time you devote to both, and much more.
Treat them fairly
You must take excellent care of your children, just as you would with any other person. This topic encompasses a wide range of issues; we’ll highlight a few, so you can act appropriately. One of the most essential things to remember is not to focus too much on one while neglecting the other. This can lead to a slew of issues in the future, all of which can be avoided with caution. For example, if one of them is demonstrating greater ability than the other, do not react rashly; applaud them but do not overdo it. Also, if you’re bringing them gifts, try to pick them something in a similar quality range. If one favours automobiles and the other prefers trucks, give them what they want, or one vehicle and one truck apiece. The most important thing is to consider and love them both, and if you do it correctly, you shouldn’t have too many issues.
Be prepared mentally
We understand that having twins can seem very demanding for you, but you should not keep your spirits down. Yes, more children equal more responsibility, but if you are loving and caring parents, a few years of being exhausted and never having time for anything will go away fairly quickly. If you do not think that you will be able to deal with your future parenting role, you should go to counselling for parents. There, there are experts who are accustomed to all the instances your situation can bring up. They will teach you how to behave in certain situations, what kind of behaviour to look out for, and many other things. It is also useful to seek help from someone that has twins also, they can share their experience, and how they dealt with some problematic situations. Your health needs to stay positive, thus you should always have in mind that you are doing it all because of your babies, and their well-being.
Help each other out
Cooperation is essential throughout the period when the babies arrive. Due to the little ones waking up at different times, you will have several restless evenings. As a result, you and your partner should agree on who will be on duty each night. It would probably be better if you took turns for a single day. Of course, if someone has extra work to complete or is ill, your timetable will alter. We also recommend that if the husband is on night duty today, the mother should take care of the majority of the daily tasks, and vice versa. In this manner, you can always get a full night’s sleep out of every two nights. Both parents must look after the children since it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to function when one parent is performing all of the jobs.

Hopefully, these suggestions will assist you in properly preparing for your children. We encourage you not to acquire too many goods ahead of time, as you may come to regret it later. One of the most significant characteristics of parents is their desire to raise their children properly; if you follow this guideline, you should not have any problems.
![[AD] ✨ Festive magic for local families in the heart of Guildford ✨
We had the loveliest evening exploring the @guildfordilluminate light trail at Guildford Castle
The trail takes around 30–40 mins
with cosy stops for hot chocolate and toasting marshmallows, it’s a gorgeous Christmas activity for Surrey families.
It’s on until 4th January and makes the perfect festive plan:
🛍️ Christmas shopping in town
✨ The light trail
🍽️ Finish with dinner in Guildford
If you’re looking for a magical, stress-free festive outing with the kids — this is one to add to your Christmas list
📍 Guildford Castle, Castle St, Guildford GU1 3SX
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![[AD] We went to the newly opened Cha Sha Kingston a couple of weeks ago, and wow — taste bud adventure unlocked! The boys devoured the masala fries and chicken tikka rolls, while we couldn’t get enough of that epic kebab butter curry 😍🍛.
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![[AD] We’re a cricket-mad family, so we’re buzzing that @thehundred is back this August! 🏏🔥
To get ready, M tried out the official FREE Activity Pack — and it’s brilliant! 🙌
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We enjoyed the glorious sunshine this weekend with a trip to Brighton. We went on the @brightoni360official which is right by the sea front.
The i360 pod take a slow journey up, allowing you to take in views across Brighton and the South Downs 450ft above ground. There’s a bar inside with drinks and snacks available to purchase and the experience lasts 25 minutes.
Afterwards, we headed to the open air roller rink for a roller skating session!
The roller rink is:
⭐ Suitable for over 5s
⭐ £6.50 if you have your own skates or £9.50 if you need to hire them
⭐ 45 minutes per session
Full details to visit the i360 + skating
📍 Brighton i360, Lower Kings Road, Brighton BN1 2LN
🚗 Parking nearby (we parked in the Regency Square Car park)
🎟️ Prices start from £25.40 for an adult and £16.90 for a child
🕐 Opening hours are currently Sun-Fri 10.30am-18.30pm and until 19.30pm on Saturdays
☕️ Bar inside the i360, cafe and gift shop
Book tickets here:
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From Tennis, Archery, Swimming, Motor Sports and more you can be sure that there will be something for kids aged 4.5-14. ⚽🏈🥅🎾🏓🏎️🏹🏊♂️🏉
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![[AD] We have some super exciting news...we have been chosen to be Laser Quest Ambassadors, and the boys are over the moon!
We are really lucky that our local Laser Quest (@laserquestkingston) is just around the corner from us. It means we can pop in of a weekend or anytime during the school holidays, and with summer just around the corner, I know Laser Quest will be one of our go-to places for some family fun.
As well as games of Laser Quest, there are also VR experiences and arcade amusements too. To find out a bit more about how Laser Quest works, you can read my blog post: https://www.suburban-mum.com/laser-quest-kingston/ (clickable link in bio)
Don't forget to keep an eye out for our Laser Quest posts - I'm going to be giving away two family passes to use at Laserquest Kingston!
If you can't wait and want to head down to Laser Quest to try it out, use the code SUMMER30 for 30% off your booking. The code is valid from now until the end of August 2023 and can be used on Laser Quest games and birthday party bookings.
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![[AD] The sun has finally made an appearance and the boys have been making the most of it by spending it
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They’re go-to is always football and they’ve been trying to improve their aim and accuracy with the new Messi Foldable Footlball goal from the #MessiTrainingSystem range.
I love the fact the goal is foldable, making it easy to store away when not in use. It is also lightweight so you can effortlessly pack it up and take it to the park or to a friend’s house.
The Messi Foldable Football Goal retails at £36 and can be purchased from @argos
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![[AD] We are absolutely thrilled to announce that we are Barracuda Ambassadors again this year.
With Easter just around the corner, the boys were sent the @barracudas_activity_day_camps new camp kit in preparation for the school holidays.
There’s a wide range of activities for kids aged 4.5 - 14 including Tennis, Archery, Basketball, Arts & Crafts and more.
If you like the sound of Barracudas, find out more over on their website. You can also save £20 a week or £4 a day, using my discount code: MARIA20](https://suburban-mum.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/336812306_765234558514317_685553691647241974_n.jpg)





