6 ways to better yourself & focus on you
Being a busy mum is a rewarding role but it can also be time-consuming and cause you stress. It’s essential that you don’t let yourself get lost in the shuffle and that you commit to more self-care.
Be glad to know there are six ways to better yourself and focus on you, so you can be happy and healthy. You’ll never regret putting more effort and energy into yourself and improving in areas that will make you more joyful overall. Put the excuses aside and let this be a chance for you to focus on you so you can be at your best to care for your family and loved ones.

Hit the gym
One way to better yourself and focus on you is to get physically fit. Hit the gym often so you can break a sweat and reduce your stress. You’ll feel physically and mentally well after a good workout and can continue to set new goals for yourself as you progress with your fitness level. Mix up your activities and routine, such as taking classes, weightlifting, and using cardio machines so you don’t become bored and are challenging different muscles. Make exercise more fun by getting outfits you enjoy wearing and putting on some of your favourite music.
Go back to school
You can also better yourself and focus on you by choosing to increase your knowledge through education. Go back to school and enrol in an MBA program such as those offered by Suffolk University to take your career to the next level. Taking courses online with education providers like Upskilled will allow you to improve yourself without having to rearrange your schedule too much. It’s convenient and affordable, and an excellent choice when you’re a busy parent with the desire to improve your education and business knowledge. More doors will open for you after you complete this coursework, and you’ll soon be able to reach your full potential as a career woman.
Try a new hobby
Hobbies should be a fun and enjoyable way to spend your time. Take up a few new ones to better yourself and focus on you. Choose activities that put a smile on your face and force you to use different skills and talents. If you’re a big fan of football you might spend your time following your team to see how they do. You can also check out some predictions for today. Some hobbies you can do by yourself and there are others that will allow you to be more social and meet new people. If you try a hobby and don’t like it then move onto another idea until you find a few that are pleasurable and rewarding. You may discover new abilities you never knew you had or ways you want to spend your time instead of going through your normal routine.
Nurture your relationships
Having a social life is healthy and will make you feel good. Better yourself by bettering and nurturing your relationships with others. You may be so busy that you don’t make time to spend with the people you love. Instead, call a friend to talk and catch up or go out to coffee with a family member. These moments you have with others are positive memories you’re creating, and you’ll have with you forever.
Set aside alone time
It’s always wise to make more time for you and be alone once in a while. Although it may feel strange at first, it’s an excellent opportunity to meditate, reflect, and think about your life and where you’re heading next. Visualise your goals and where you see yourself in five and ten years from now. While it’s good to be busy and social sometimes, it’s also necessary to connect with your own being and think about you for a change. You might find that reading an interesting book, going for a walk, or writing and being creative are enjoyable activities that you want to make sure you do more often.
Keep a journal
You can also better yourself and focus on your health and well-being by keeping a journal. Write down your goals and aspirations and use it to help you practise more self-love. Reflect on what you like about yourself and what makes you unique. Journal about your problems and then brainstorm solutions that you might want to implement to help you get through obstacles you’re facing in your life. Use your journal as a tool for being open and honest with yourself and avoid judgments. Give yourself the freedom to be you on paper. Make a note of all you’ve achieved over the years and all that you want to do yet to give yourself some direction.
![[AD] ✨ Festive magic for local families in the heart of Guildford ✨
We had the loveliest evening exploring the @guildfordilluminate light trail at Guildford Castle
The trail takes around 30–40 mins
with cosy stops for hot chocolate and toasting marshmallows, it’s a gorgeous Christmas activity for Surrey families.
It’s on until 4th January and makes the perfect festive plan:
🛍️ Christmas shopping in town
✨ The light trail
🍽️ Finish with dinner in Guildford
If you’re looking for a magical, stress-free festive outing with the kids — this is one to add to your Christmas list
📍 Guildford Castle, Castle St, Guildford GU1 3SX
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![[AD] We went to the newly opened Cha Sha Kingston a couple of weeks ago, and wow — taste bud adventure unlocked! The boys devoured the masala fries and chicken tikka rolls, while we couldn’t get enough of that epic kebab butter curry 😍🍛.
It’s amazing value for food this tasty (and everyone left happy and VERY full!).
Delicious food, vibrant vibes and incredible value — the perfect combo for your next meal.
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43 Surbiton Road, KT1 2HG
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Other Cha Sha locations in Birmingham, Ilford, Southampton and Wembkey
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![[AD] We’re a cricket-mad family, so we’re buzzing that @thehundred is back this August! 🏏🔥
To get ready, M tried out the official FREE Activity Pack — and it’s brilliant! 🙌
Packed with fun games, creative challenges and sporty tasks, it’s perfect for getting kids hyped whether you’re at home or on the go.
👉Download yours now (link in bio)
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We enjoyed the glorious sunshine this weekend with a trip to Brighton. We went on the @brightoni360official which is right by the sea front.
The i360 pod take a slow journey up, allowing you to take in views across Brighton and the South Downs 450ft above ground. There’s a bar inside with drinks and snacks available to purchase and the experience lasts 25 minutes.
Afterwards, we headed to the open air roller rink for a roller skating session!
The roller rink is:
⭐ Suitable for over 5s
⭐ £6.50 if you have your own skates or £9.50 if you need to hire them
⭐ 45 minutes per session
Full details to visit the i360 + skating
📍 Brighton i360, Lower Kings Road, Brighton BN1 2LN
🚗 Parking nearby (we parked in the Regency Square Car park)
🎟️ Prices start from £25.40 for an adult and £16.90 for a child
🕐 Opening hours are currently Sun-Fri 10.30am-18.30pm and until 19.30pm on Saturdays
☕️ Bar inside the i360, cafe and gift shop
Book tickets here:
https://tickets.brightoni360.co.uk/tickets/?_ga=2.195305772.1869001490.1689671753-1757164059.1689671753/#events?eventid=157](https://suburban-mum.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/417980235_313576471048632_3682382982231216432_n.jpg)

![[AD] ***Summer of fun at Barracudas Activity Camps!****
There is plenty for kids to do at @barracudas_activity_day_camps
From Tennis, Archery, Swimming, Motor Sports and more you can be sure that there will be something for kids aged 4.5-14. ⚽🏈🥅🎾🏓🏎️🏹🏊♂️🏉
You can book on a day by day basis - so it can fit in with any other days out/activities you have planned and there are early drop off and late pickup options available. Barracudas are also Ofsted registered so you can use your Childcare Vouchers too.
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![[AD] We have some super exciting news...we have been chosen to be Laser Quest Ambassadors, and the boys are over the moon!
We are really lucky that our local Laser Quest (@laserquestkingston) is just around the corner from us. It means we can pop in of a weekend or anytime during the school holidays, and with summer just around the corner, I know Laser Quest will be one of our go-to places for some family fun.
As well as games of Laser Quest, there are also VR experiences and arcade amusements too. To find out a bit more about how Laser Quest works, you can read my blog post: https://www.suburban-mum.com/laser-quest-kingston/ (clickable link in bio)
Don't forget to keep an eye out for our Laser Quest posts - I'm going to be giving away two family passes to use at Laserquest Kingston!
If you can't wait and want to head down to Laser Quest to try it out, use the code SUMMER30 for 30% off your booking. The code is valid from now until the end of August 2023 and can be used on Laser Quest games and birthday party bookings.
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![[AD] The sun has finally made an appearance and the boys have been making the most of it by spending it
in the garden.
They’re go-to is always football and they’ve been trying to improve their aim and accuracy with the new Messi Foldable Footlball goal from the #MessiTrainingSystem range.
I love the fact the goal is foldable, making it easy to store away when not in use. It is also lightweight so you can effortlessly pack it up and take it to the park or to a friend’s house.
The Messi Foldable Football Goal retails at £36 and can be purchased from @argos
You can read my full review here: https://www.suburban-mum.com/messi-foldable-football-goal/
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![[AD] We are absolutely thrilled to announce that we are Barracuda Ambassadors again this year.
With Easter just around the corner, the boys were sent the @barracudas_activity_day_camps new camp kit in preparation for the school holidays.
There’s a wide range of activities for kids aged 4.5 - 14 including Tennis, Archery, Basketball, Arts & Crafts and more.
If you like the sound of Barracudas, find out more over on their website. You can also save £20 a week or £4 a day, using my discount code: MARIA20](https://suburban-mum.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/336812306_765234558514317_685553691647241974_n.jpg)





