Tips for Mums to gain back their independence

Maria
July 27, 2017

Being a mum is a tough job. It’s rewarding, but also difficult. They’re in charge of taking care of just about every aspect of their life plus the lives of their children. In addition, they may have a marriage to nurture and that doesn’t leave a lot of extra time for mum.

It’s easy to get caught up in a cycle of having to do every little task around the house and take care of everyone. Soon, mum is exhausted and doesn’t remember to foster her own health and happiness. If this is you, it’s time to take a step back and re-evaluate. See tips for how you can gain back your independence.

Schedule alone time

If you’re feeling overwhelmed it’s because you don’t have enough time for you. Take the initiative to pencil in your time for yourself. Read a book, take a bath or go for a walk. Use your alone time to do activities that you enjoy. It’s up to you to make sure you put yourself on the calendar and are able to stop every once in a while. Remember that the better you take care of yourself, the better you’ll be able to care for your family.

Drive your own car

Gain independence by driving your own car. Go into a store like Mercedes Coldstream and shop around for a new vehicle. You deserve a stylish car that’s affordable and fabulous. Take a test drive and see how good it feels to be behind the wheel of a nice vehicle. Driving your own car is important and will make you feel like more than just the chauffeur. This will give you the flexibility to run to the store or gym whenever you need.

Start a hobby

Pick up a hobby that’ll keep you occupied and challenged. Start cooking, painting or completing various DIY projects. A hobby is a great way to stay busy and see the work of your own efforts come to life. Hobbies stimulate your mind and body, and always keep you on your toes. The best part is that you can try one activity and if you don’t like it, drop it and begin another.

Promote your child’s independence

One way for you to get your independence is to help your children get theirs. Pass down what you know to them, so they’re able to start making decisions on their own. Be their guidance and mentor and give them a chance to show you what they know. You’ll probably be surprised at how well they do.

Ask for help

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Let your spouse or friends know you’re struggling and see if there’s a way for them to pitch in. Be honest about how busy you are and what’s on your plate. They’ll get behind you, and you won’t need to feel as stressed.

Conclusion

There comes a time when you have to stand up for yourself. It’s important to have your own interests and alone time. These are tips for how mums can gain back their independence.

About The Author

Hello and welcome to Suburban Mum! I'm Maria and I'm mum to two boys - E who's 14 and M who's 11. This blog is about my family, the ups and downs of being a working mum and everything in between. If you want to find out more about me and my family head over to our About us page.