There’s no reason as to why someone should feel compelled to dress a certain way, except, of course, in a professional environment or for the good taste of general accepted wisdom. Most people don’t go out wearing socks on their ears, after all, although far be it from us to tell you how to live.

That being said, it’s also true that feeling confident and capable of dressing how you like is more than just feeling obliged to do so. The truth is that fashion can be a very fun and explorative journey, one that helps you learn more about your own tastes and even express yourself with confidence.

Perhaps your partner is one such person who dresses simply and never pays fashion much mind, which is absolutely fine. But as a partner, perhaps you also feel it’s your job to help them come out of their shell a little bit. A great way to do that is to help empower their dress choices instead of telling them what to wear.

With that in mind, let’s consider how to start:

Encourage Wardrobe Exploration Together

Ultimately, a journey you take together will be more rewarding than one you take alone. Sure, you don’t have to dress like Thing 1 and Thing 2, but you can still compliment one another’s taste. You might plan a nice shopping spree for the festive season, or even begin each season with a little trip out and a meal afterwards. The more you make fashion fun, the more they’re likely to adapt to it.

Gift Stylish and Complimentary Pieces

Of course, the best way to help someone feel better about themselves is to buy an item they’re sure to look great in. That might be comfortable designer fashion like a Ralph Lauren Tracksuit, or even an accessory like a cool watch that matches their eye color and personality down to the ground. There’s also the nice little trick that if you buy something nice for someone, they feel obligated to wear it.

Celebrate Their Body Positivity

There are various entirely valid reasons why not everyone is into fashion, but in some cases, this can be because of insecurity. For example, if you think that your figure is a little odd or overweight, you might feel happier wearing baggy clothes or not really trying to look good through clothes. There’s nothing wrong with the outcome, of course, but there is something wrong with the self-perception that can only be addressed by a loved one.

Compliment their body positivity, help them find clothes that fit, and make it clear you love those unique parts of them. Show where your own insecurities might be to confirm that yes, everyone is different and our unique elements make us who we are. These comforts can nurture a kind of willingness to self-expression because there is nothing to get wrong in the first place.

With this advice, you’re sure to help your partner dress more confidently, inspiring them to try more over the years.